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I am so happy that I have met my perfect partner

Hi Shannon and the PPI Team,

I am so happy that I have met my perfect partner through you guys but now I am very worried about introducing my new Significant Other to my sons.  As you know I was widowed 3 years ago and it has been a time of adjustment and change, and I am ready for the next chapter as I am too young and vibrant to remain single for the rest of my life!  Please advise how best to break the good news to my adult boys!

Fond regards,

Mary

Dearest Mary,

Thanks for sharing this little dilemma with us dear Mary, and the best thing to do maybe call a family meeting and tell your sons that Mom has to move on in life because you don’t want to spend the rest of your life alone, especially your old age, and a companion is normal under the circumstances, and would they be happy for you to have a well-selected friend?

If they object, deal with their objection without getting emotional or subjective – remain objective, and understand with infinite love that they are only worried about your future  and love you passionately, and only should want what is best for you.

Being honest up front is the only way to go, and they need to realise that no human being is meant to be without a soul mate, it is not God’s plan that we be single.  They too must have mates or are seeking mates, and appeal to them from the point of view that nobody ‘owns’ anybody but the bond of family remains the strongest bond between a mother and her sons, and nothing will change, except that it will make you very happy to have an ADULT companion in your life now.

Assure them that their father has a very special part in your heart, and memories are wonderful, but life has to go on and he would have hated to think you are lonely and without companionship – as he always only wanted to do the best for you and the boys!  They will, as their lives progress, also move on from the close knit bond you now have, but it won’t change the depth of it.

Life is about change and we have to develop as a species, and moving forward is inevitable, otherwise you may just as well curl up and die!  Make them see the practical and logical flow of events.  Tell them you have made a friend, and would like them to meet him one day (take it slowly) because you want their blessings – and assure them they will always be the most important persons in your life, no man can take their place.

Appeal to them, once they give ground, to stand by you and support you because you NEED them!  Now more than ever!  Tell them also that your assets will be safe and you will never risk their inheritance – they may be worried about gold diggers or a man taking what is not his!  Or hurting you – and if that aspect comes up, tell them that hurt and the pain of change must be endured by us all in order for growth to happen!  And you know they are there for you if anything changes!

I hope the above advice will help dear Mary, and wish you luck – they will be very cross if you live a lie and don’t tell the truth, so it is best to come clean, in the nicest possible ‘mommy way’!  let me know how it goes,

Love and light as always,

Fond Regards
Shannon

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Another Happy Ending

Hi Shannon, I trust you are well. Thank You for the latest profile. I have however found my muse through Perfect Partners and would like to be removed from your books now.

I would like to thank you and Perfect Partners for the journey that I walked with you. I did not only find my Soul Mate immediately, but I did experience success through Perfect Partners. Success is measured in different ways. Through Perfect Partners I found my confidence again, rediscovered myself and realized that there is more to me than I first thought. I needed to rebuild my foundations after my divorce which Perfect Partners helped me achieve.

Good foundations are necessary for a good rebuilding of a mind and a life. A more confident person is a more successful person whether it is Love, Work or Play and Perfect Partners helped me rebuild and strengthen my confidence. What I will cherish is that I did find True Love.

I am thoroughly enjoying work, very busy and very challenging. My Round Table Brothers are a great bunch and good friends. I have excellent cycling routes around me and my Cardiovascular System has adjusted nicely to the higher altitude. My Toastmasters Club is ensuring that I am becoming a polished communicator, just what I need for my weekly Channel meetings and those Presentations to Operations Managers and Business Unit Managers and also ensuring my communication to my staff is carried out properly.

It has been an amazing journey Shannon and Inge, thanks for the ride and Thank You Perfect Partners.

Kind Regards,

BM.

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As seen in Istanbul by one of our Members!

Our member says we are still the best perfect partners ever, never mind choc-chip cookies!

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A Wedding in June!

3rd February 2013

Dearest TE & RC,

Thanks so much for letting us know the awesome news about your wedding in June!  We seem to be notching up quite a few now for April and June, and hope there will be good news of more to come!  We count you as one of our most inspiring stories as RC was your very first date and you really thought love would never find you after all your other bad experiences!  It was your time!

We are very honoured to be mentioned in your article in a leading magazine, and we are very modest about what we do – but this is a love story that should be shared.  Thanks for giving us the accolade and sharing with the world what we have achieved – together!  You are so awesome it had to happen!  Please let us know when the article will be published.

Indeed, we received stunning pics of your Dad’s and IP’s wedding – he is right – she truly looks like an angel!  They look very happy and so in love!

Now we must complete the picture and marry your brother off too!

We wish you all the happiness in the world for ever and ever,

Fond Regards

Shannon, Rick, Inge and the PPI Team

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29th January 2013

Dear Shannon and the PPI Team,

We are very thrilled to let you know we are getting married – the big day is set for June 2013!  I cannot believe how quickly things happened and from the first moment it was as if we were just meant for each other.  As you know I am very involved in the creative arts and a journalist friend of mine has asked for permission to write our love story for a leading magazine, so we would love to mention that Perfect Partners are the magicians – we want the world to know how fantastic you are!  My husband-to-be is the most wonderful man I could ever have dreamt of!

Thank you very much also for what you did for my Dad, he and IP got married on the 21st December 2012 and it was a beautiful wedding – I never thought my Dad would be so happy again after losing Mom a few years ago.  So two members from the same family, first me and RC then Dad and IP, fell in love on our first dates, it must be more than just ‘magic’ …….it is your incredible perception and caring introductions that did it for both of us. Dad is a whole new person indeed.

Please now just find my brother a true love too, and the picture will be perfect!  TE is very eligible and it should not take long if he also lets you and the universe work for him!  He has been the longest with you and it should happen soon!  A hat trick coming up in the  same family!

We will send you pics of the Big Day!

Much love from both of us,

TE & RC

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It has been a wonderful love story

Hi Shannon and the PPI Team,

Just to let you know that since we set eyes on each other it has been a wonderful love story and we are getting married on 16th February 2013!  I have only been with you for 5 months and I must say that you are very accurate with an astute awareness of our needs. You guys are wonderful!

We will definitely send photos – the wedding is a small and intimate, but very romantic occasion for friends and family.

We wish you much success with your other couples too, may they all one day have what we have!

Fond Regards
L & JP

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