I am blown away! Here is the quote I mentioned, I read it two days before my coaching session and cannot believe how you so hit the nail on the head in your own words because truly, it is a message from the universe and affirmed by you that I should relax more and be vulnerable (because yes, I know I am safe with you and your dating agency, always) and I should not try to control everything, and should not overthink every word and move but just chill and let love happen as it should! I sure have met some awesome bachelors and now they may also take more interest…I realise we all like being with fun people!
“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable”
Thanks as usual for the chat.. your insight and thought leadership on the topic of relationships, is unrivalled. Also, thanks for the text message which you sent to me. I do need to take my heart out of that rusty old treasure chest and let it breathe, feel and enjoy the wonderful things coming my way! I realise I make too much of it all and will also be more fun and great company if I just trust me to be me!! You made total sense!
Take care and chat soon.