Today our expert matchmaker and date coach, Shannon, talks exactly about how best we can present you out there and what YOU can do to make magic happen! What does it help to meet your perfect partner and fluff the one best opportunity you may have right under your nose? Understanding the rules of the dating/relating/mating game is key!
We research far and wide for tips to share, and today is about the mystery of attraction, and how to keep that desired attention when someone is attracted. It is a vast and complicated subject and different for each person, but the basic rules are the same for all! Sexual tension is vital in a new “attraction” and flirting, courting, hunting and impressing adds to the first level of foreplay!
For starters, unless you are a famous person or world leader or movie star, with all the props these folks have, your best asset is YOU! And using your assets successfully, can only be up to you. We prepare, present, and profile everyone to inspire interest, and once you are meeting new prospects, the magic is in your hands to make it happen….only YOU can steer matters for desired results….or walk away.
Your Matchmaker Guides Your Dating Success
It is assumed you have a dating strategy for starters? If not our experts guide you on the best attraction factors to ensure you draw the attention from the RIGHT kinda others you plan to meet. Why punch in the dark when expert dating advice is here!
The general advice from all the global experts is just to be yourself – being you is enough! Of course, being your BEST you already will attract the “types” and likeminded people you seek, so it goes without saying, you have worked on your visuals and are very aware of the competition and are stepping up for yourself as best you can.
Even our tips and guidance may have helped you amp up your attraction factor. And many of you care enough to have worked on the ‘outer’ image. Some inner work is also necessary and this is like goal setting – for example, every child wants to drive a Ferrari one day, but they need to learn to drive first! Start with the outcomes in mind. Input equals output.
Do Singles Really Know What Attraction Is?
The belief that others should like us “just the way I am” may be the reason many Singles stay single. Singles wanting to give away their hearts, share a future and live a fulfilling life, want to attract the most compatible and best potential life mate. And exploring is necessary, and there is competition, whether we like it or not. What do you really know about your landscape? What are your working terms of reference on WHO is out there for you?
It is a given that others you engage with (on all platforms) will always remember you for how you made them feel. If your interest in them was warm, wholehearted, from the heart, and showed you were interested in them truly, they will know instinctively you meant it. How others will sum you up will be determined by your reactions, actions, words and by being authentic. This is why we keep in mind we each have our individual “brand”…..and we have done a lot to assist you with this brand too.
The purpose of early interaction (you are out there to explore mutual attraction, right?) is to prove you are a caring, loving and lovable person and fun to be with! For starters. BUT, you have to attract interest and even beat the competition before you even start flirting!
How you define yourself will clarify what and how you feel about adding value to the “object of your attention” (unless you doing a hit and run then nothing much matters other than finding a bedroom) and how you feel about them and the world around you. The purpose is not to outgun them, enrol them in a workshop or be as boring as your last history lesson! Let your personality and charm, humour and warmth do the job. But how?
Your team of experts are standing by to hear from you! A free orientation chat on how it all works await, and we look forward to hearing from you. No more blind dating and waste of time, the answers are here.