Voted Best Dating Service in South Africa

Our dating agency has been voted Best Dating Service in South Africa for 2 consecutive years, mainly working with the niche Singles Professional community, with close to decades of experience in the field and at the coal face – the human touch, no dating sites, apps or bots!  As matchmakers, our job is not just to find you a suitable partner but also to help you navigate the often-challenging world of dating. One of the most common obstacles that people face when it comes to dating is fear. Fear can manifest in many different ways, such as fear of rejection, fear of commitment, fear of getting hurt, fear of being vulnerable and many more. However, no matter what your specific fear may be, we are here to help you overcome it and find the love you deserve.

Dating Agency Debunks Fears of Dating

Often our fear is caused by past experiences and even traumatic events in failed relationships. Firstly though, we understand that fear is a natural human emotion, and we will never judge you for feeling afraid as it is part of your survival instinct. Instead, we will listen to your concerns and work with you to come up with a dating strategy that will help you face your fears head-on. We will encourage you to talk about your past dating experiences and help you identify any patterns or triggers that may be causing your fear. By understanding the root of your fear, we can help you develop strategies to overcome it.

One of the most effective ways to overcome fear is through exposure therapy. “Getting back in the saddle” is a good term we use here, except now you have someone to guide the wild ride of dating – holding the reigns as it may be! This involves gradually exposing yourself to the thing that scares you in a controlled environment, until you become desensitized to it and regain confidence. As matchmakers, we can help you take small steps towards facing your fear, such as going on a low-pressure date or attending a social event with other singles. We will be there to support you every step of the way and offer guidance and encouragement when needed.

Learning to Win at the Dating Game 

Winning at any game requires knowledge and skills, and the dating game is not called the ‘a game’ without reason.  There are tried and proven steps. Another way we can help you overcome your dating fears is by providing education and resources so you understand YOUR specific ‘market’ and landscape. For example, if your fear is related to a lack of confidence, we can recommend books or courses that will help you build your self-esteem. If your fear is related to trust issues, we can refer you to a therapist or coach who specializes in this area. Still, nothing beats starting over with a guided, controlled and well-paced strategy. By equipping you with the knowledge and tools you need to overcome your fear, we can help you feel more confident and empowered when it comes to dating.

Knowledge is power when Seeking New Love

Finally, we can help you reframe your mindset around dating. Instead of seeing it as a scary or intimidating experience, we can help you view it as an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. Be less intense!! Our platform is SAFE!! You can go home knowing you are not exposed if it wasn’t for you. You can smile at the clumsy efforts of others and wish them well. You will be wise and mature about the fact none of us can please everybody all of the time – that is life. We will remind you that every dating experience, even if it doesn’t lead to a long-term relationship, is a chance to learn more about yourself and what you are looking for in a partner. By focusing on the positive aspects of dating rather than the negative, we can help you approach it with a more open and optimistic attitude.

In conclusion, as matchmakers, our goal is to help you overcome your dating fears so that you can find the love you deserve. Start by being personally introduced to the RIGHT and COMPATIBLE others by your matchmaker! We understand that fear is a natural part of the dating process, and we are here to support you every step of the way. Whether it’s through exposure therapy, education and resources, or mindset reframing, we will work with you to develop a personalized plan that meets your unique needs and helps you feel confident and empowered when it comes to dating. Don’t give up on finding LOVE AGAIN!

 Please submit your Personal Profile and we will contact you to book your free orientation chat on how it works and the next steps. Start a new dating success story! Entry criteria and fees apply. We have different packages for different needs.

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