Why is the normal ‘boy meet girl’ such a difficult thing when everyone just wants to trust love, has found them?
As Covid has changed many things we now call the ‘new normal; nothing has changed when it comes to needing to love and be loved!! Our expert dating service and matchmaker, Shannon, also a successful relationship coach, has found that every Single Man and Single Woman out there need to date with the main purpose of finding true love (as opposed to wishful thinking), and Covid does not stop Cupid!! Safe dating is key, and that also means using a safe dating site where we have assured the strangers we are about to meet are verified as genuine.
Have you been a Victim of a Catfish?
Until a Single bachelor or bachelorette, dating vigorously out there, actually experience a Catfish, or worse, a stalker, this seems to be a joke!! Unfortunately, Shannon hears tales of woe every day!! From dating scams to Singles who wanted to believe they had met the perfect right partner and discovered all manner of ‘agendas’ were lurking beneath the surface, we hear it all!!
Roadmap to Successful dating with a Trusted Dating Service
An expert matchmaker is a human resource who verifies the people that join their dating agency – even if never perfect, they are there besides you all the way and have your back, which is better than winging it alone!!
Sometimes a match may look perfect for starters, and chemistry is high, but then how do you recognise ‘red flags’ when your hormones are racing, and your brain turned to jelly?? A dating agency has dating experts who remain neutral and can decipher warning signs – and some you have as an experienced sounding board
Every Human needs and deserves to find love
As matchmakers, we often find Singles have a check list (like a tick box) of who they think they deserve!! Based on previous bad experiences, or delusions and fairy tales, this tick list grows over time and is quite beyond realistic thinking – every new prospect is different – no two people react the same to any given situation, and it is never about a perfect blueprint or agendas, but how our hearts connect. Love finds us!! When two hearts speak as one, then there is a chance of great success!
We soon identify agendas if there are agendas (apart from the obvious dangers out there when dating solo). It can look innocent – the Singleton who is more worried about matching their children/families/pets to a new partner, to people who just want to have a fling (but assure us they want to settle) to people who are just looking for a joy ride, or an ego boost – or even to make the ex-jealous, and many more nefarious reasons – your dating agency has heard it all!!!
Even if YOU are not sure you want a partner (and we often hear “I don’t NEED a partner, it would just be nice to have someone close to share fun times with” or even “start a family with”, this is not dating to find love – they know nothing about real love, or what?) your matchmaker can help you find your purpose for wanting to date – have a clear idea of what YOU want!! As the song goes, “What’s Love Got to DO With it?” ……we help you find answers!!!
Firstly, we need to be sure our hearts are alive, open, vulnerable and brave to explore every opportunity. A matchmaker recognises your ‘type’ and acknowledges your needs, and cuts out the hassle of making too many mistakes when making choices!!
You can hear more about our unique and trusted dating by design strategy in a free orientation discussion. Please complete and submit your Personal Profile (this is a private email to our CEO, no online exposure ever), tell us about yourself, and we will get back to you!!